Tuesday, 12 January 2010

..girls, married men and Helen Reddy..

..gals who fell for married man should not feel so bad..to me it is not their fault..for in many ways, they were helpless..not because of their naivety or innocence..but in spite of that..for most men who are married, has developed the art of seducing singles girls to a level that combined both subtlety and patience to the extent its effectiveness is almost total..trust this old man on this..I know..



..there is no such thing as chance encounters, or an accidental touch..for everything is planned, only the girl is unaware..and there is no such thing as love at first sight..for no girl would give a married man a third glance..every move is initiated by the man..for when it come to stalking his prey, he has the patience of a saint and the covert moves of a spy..

.by the time the girl realised that it was an entrapment, it was too late..she had given him her heart..it was love..and as Helen Reddy said..he is such a descent man...

..but that descent man knew that a girl is virtuous until the day she falls in love...and love has a way of making a girl loses her virtue..

note: click comments for lyrics to the song...


14 comments:

hani@debumelukut said...

Talking thru experience eh???

pakmat said...

:)..no..inspired by Helen Reddy..

pakmat said...

..lyrics to Helen Reddy's song..

I CAN'T SAY GOODBYE TO YOU
-Helen Reddy-

you say it would be better
if we stopped seeing each other
if you had only met me first
when you were free
'cause now you've got commitment
i should not expect things from you
that you can't give to me
oh, but baby, can't you see

i can't say goodbye to you
no matter how i tried
you're such a part of me
withour you, i would die
deep, in the heart of me
i know that you and i
were meant to be be together
i can't tell you goodbye

neither of us planned
that we would fall in love this way
but since we did
why should we be apart
sometimes, some things happen
that can never be explained
now, it's too late for me
i've already given you my heart

i can't say goodbye to you
no matter how i tried
you're such a part of me
withour you, i would die
deep, in the heart of me
i know that you and i
were meant to be be together
i can't tell you goodbye

who knows why we choose
when we choose the ones we love
who knows why we do the things
we do when we're in love
i know that you're a decent man
and you try to do what's best
but how can i forget
all the feelings we have shared

i can't say goodbye to you
no matter how i tried
you're such a part of me
withour you, i would die
deep, in the heart of me
i know that you and i
were meant to be be together
i can't tell you goodbye

(you and i were meant to be, forever)
i can't tell you goodbye.......

Cat-in-Sydney said...

PakMat dear,
And the girl, hooked, will sing this song when she realises that she's been trapped.

Saving All My Love for You - Whitney Houston

A few stolen moments is all that we share
You've got your family, and they need you there
Though I've tried to resist, being last on your list
But no other man's gonna do
So I'm saving all my love for you

It's not very easy, living all alone
My friends try and tell me, find a man of my own
But each time I try, I just break down and cry
Cause I'd rather be home feeling blue
So I'm saving all my love for you

You used to tell me we'd run away together
Love gives you the right to be free
You said be patient, just wait a little longer
But that's just an old fantasy

I've got to get ready, just a few minutes more
Gonna get that old feeling when you walk through that door
Cause tonight is the night, for feeling alright
We'll be making love the whole night through
So I'm saving all my love
Yes I'm saving all my love
Yes I'm saving all my love for you

No other woman, is gonna love you more
Cause tonight is the night, that I'm feeling alright
We'll be making love the whole night through
So I'm saving all my love
Yeah I'm saving all my lovin
Yes I'm saving all my love for you
For you, for you

BTW, do you know that Helen Reddy is related to the great Australian author Colleen McCullough?

pakmat said...

my dear cat..you nailed it, my dear feline friend..and no, I did not know that..but I knew she's an Aussie..and she had a great voice..her rendition of 'you're my world' still gave me goosepimples..and to me, her version is better than Cilla Black..and I am sure C. McCullough can sing..!

Anonymous said...

.. ahh pandainyaaaa ..

tiba2 terpacul muka DK and CT. heh.

Justiffa said...

But my dear pakmat, there are also the sweet young things who're not so naive, not so innocent. they are the ones who will not hesitate to use their youth to the fullest advantage.. and have the much 'wiser' older men eating out of their hands before those poor sods know what hit them.

There's guile & guile-less pakmat, men (and women too of course lol) need to make that distinct difference somehow ;D

pakmat said...

..there is always the other side of the coin, Justi...and there will always be nymphets whose target is to ensnare elderly men of wealth..one can only be wary and tread with care..

bangkai said...

In my case, I may be elderly but I am nowhere near what some would call wealthy. But there's always nymphets trying to ensnare me all the time :-)

(Yeah, sure!)

Anyway, the manipulative elderly married man you allude to is a testament to the adage, "Old age and treachery will always overcome youth and skill."

rizal hashim said...

hehehe my wife laughed reading this posting...but now she knows how the male species work...via the covert moves of a spy and the patience of a saint! hah

pakmat said...

..oo, mr. m. bangkai..you honour me..and I am not surprised that nymphets are trying..men of words intrigue them..a dose of treachery and a dash of wit..they're goners..:)

pakmat said...

lc, pakmat disclaimed responsiblity should those short range p&p (pots and pans) missiles were to fly in your kitchen..

anneaziz said...

Pak Mat,

Have you watched a tom cat in heat when he's trying to get that female? Sampai kurus , lupa makan, lupa minum, belemoih (kata orang kedah). He'll follow and stalk her until he gets her! Males are so similar, whether bi pedal homo sapiens or 4 legged felines!

Your entry reminds me of Bruce, my one year old tom. He's now the official neighborhood stalker!

And i totally agree with anon who is reminded of DK and CT! Wakaka! JIN NOTTI menyerang!

rizal hashim said...

PakMat, I've made sure Pakmat that in my kitchen we have only plastic cups, cutlery and plates so that when they fly they make less noise! but the shrill of her voice, aiyoh typical teacher maahhhh...then i will have to be patient and covert in my behaviour! hehe