tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post5379456109033447269..comments2023-11-05T18:22:03.571+08:00Comments on pakmat: ..collateral damage..Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18068291687504013148noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-39764096341386794542010-11-27T18:20:39.608+08:002010-11-27T18:20:39.608+08:00..thank you, tommy..am learning to live with it..h.....thank you, tommy..am learning to live with it..hehehe..<br /><br />..it is just reflections, ismi..:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18068291687504013148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-9766290480466537402010-11-27T09:01:35.032+08:002010-11-27T09:01:35.032+08:00the wise reflections of pak mat..
i am taking less...the wise reflections of pak mat..<br />i am taking lessons. thank you :)isminoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-74711460835391205732010-11-26T21:19:09.257+08:002010-11-26T21:19:09.257+08:00Our fate & destiny are all written in the star...Our fate & destiny are all written in the stars, Pakmat. All things considered, I believed u did ur best & u should be proud that all ur kids (taking your #1 Tisa as an example)turn out very well :))<br /><br />n.b; All of us have regrets one way or another but we learn to live with it and make amends where ever possible :(Tommy Yewfigurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12417405409281770347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-48354940430356773802010-11-24T14:44:50.216+08:002010-11-24T14:44:50.216+08:00..daughter says thank you, Kevin..:)..daughter says thank you, Kevin..:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18068291687504013148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-19620624190400265242010-11-24T14:42:24.243+08:002010-11-24T14:42:24.243+08:00..peace be upon you, folks..no one goes into a mar.....peace be upon you, folks..no one goes into a marriage with a view to divorce..but certain things happen..but when it does, it takes some effort to get over the bitterness..rightly we should we should get over it and strategise for the sake of the children..only sometimes we hurt the children in order to spite our ex..to me, all those finger pointings do not help much..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18068291687504013148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-41919444732167188672010-11-24T13:31:20.730+08:002010-11-24T13:31:20.730+08:00While there may be valid reasons for the divorce, ...While there may be valid reasons for the divorce, or if you believe in 'takdir' or that you can only plan... but both parents should come to their senses and make every effort to minimise the effect on their children, that's the least they should doGrandpahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13250675550143944134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-52673667276055159962010-11-24T10:25:19.181+08:002010-11-24T10:25:19.181+08:00yes pakmat, a good one indeed.
acrimony in matrim...yes pakmat, a good one indeed.<br /><br />acrimony in matrimony is sometimes best solved by parting ways. but the community treat couples who decide to throw in the towel especially to fathers in a cruel way. maybe becos it is the man who has the final say. but women (wife) also have their say in many ways which contribute to the factors of divorce.<br /><br />It is better for acrimonious couples to live a separate life than be a burden to their children when they are together in a suffering life.<br /><br />the children are in many ways better served when both parents are happier being unmarried (or married to another) than being in a bad relationship just for the sake of the children. been there done thatdotsnoddshttp://dotsnodss.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-58254326040988708742010-11-24T09:44:40.099+08:002010-11-24T09:44:40.099+08:00PS
All the best to your daughter, Auji.
Freddie...PS<br /><br />All the best to your daughter, Auji.<br /><br /><br />FreddieAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02213358785917176883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-48032362514789025962010-11-24T09:35:16.762+08:002010-11-24T09:35:16.762+08:00Howdy Pakmat,
The situation becomes more pitiful ...Howdy Pakmat,<br /><br />The situation becomes more pitiful for the kids when the parents have bitter animosity even after divorce. <br /><br />Any one or the other having such tendency has an irreparable effect on the kids in more ways than one.<br /><br />yes, I have friends in such situations.<br /><br />Pakmat, I may be wrong but I think the present times are a contributing factor. In my younger days, I have friends and acquaintances from broken marriages, who are fine upright people today.<br /><br />Good one by the way. All parents must be selfless and have the kids welfare above all else, single, married, seperated and divorced.<br /><br />Yes, a good one this.<br /><br />Warm Greetings<br />FreddieAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02213358785917176883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-23071850005970028762010-11-24T08:47:16.784+08:002010-11-24T08:47:16.784+08:00I believe you got it right..mate.
If only everyone...I believe you got it right..mate.<br />If only everyone is more positives and forward looking... we would have a more peaceful world to live in.. an excellent entry in retro mode.. I guess I have a lot to learn from you...Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7669895094883689077.post-85850099856124680722010-11-24T04:12:22.499+08:002010-11-24T04:12:22.499+08:00Grieve and regrets ...one shall not...
for one cou...Grieve and regrets ...one shall not...<br />for one could only plan...<br />Allah knows best!hazeleyed ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06042589904400261756noreply@blogger.com